Tension: A Key Leverage Point
A difference in relational opinion, focus, gifting or awareness of what is happening and how to interpret it. It is healthy, normal and needed. Where is there tension? How am I responding to the tension?
Introduction
How to work through this module, step by step
Journal - Tension
Finding the Pain in your @ss-umption (PDF ebook)
The model
Matt - introducing tension
Introducing tension
Tension is not a bad word (This is a short article I wrote for the government of Singapore.)
Tension graph overview - View this with the tension graph above open.
Tension graph
Circles of Transformation - View this with the circles of transformation graph below open.
Tension - circles of transformation
Matt introduces stress
Rabbi - clip, 2 min
How Chronic Stress Affects your Body - 5 Min.
How Stress Affects your Brain - Ted talk, 4 min
Stress and your body
Matt introduces family systems
Learning from the Family
Assessment for Tension
Key strategies for managing tension
Tension creates heat - From the work of Heifetz.